From
the Upper Peninsula to the inner city of Detroit, Michiganders going through divorce quickly understand the great challenge
the process of divorce becomes. It seems daunting at first. You're here and needing answers, right? Take a deep breath. If
nothing else, we'll give you some answers and ease your anxiety.
Michigan Child Support
Michigan child support laws is based on and
what is called the Income Shares Model. The Family Court may at any time after the filing of
a petition for divorce (or any other action involving minor children) issue
an order for the care, custody, and support of the minor children of the parties. Courts also have the latitude to issue
child support orders, in certain circumstances, for children who are not minors. Courts will
follow state divorce laws with an order for income withholding unless good cause is shown why not to do so. Trying to calculate
how much a child support payment is under the income shares format
can get pretty
dicey. In cases where a party is intentionally unemployed or under-employed, the courts will impute (calculate what that
person is capable of earning), and assign that amount without regard to that person's lowered income. See this site's link
to the Michigan child support laws that are the basis for calculating child support.
Once your child has reached the age of 19, the child support obligations end, unless a successful petition has extended
the time frame.
Health Care Coverage for Minor Children
If a Michigan child support order
is entered, the court will require that one or both parents obtain or maintain health care coverage that is available to
them at a reasonable cost, as a benefit of employment, for the benefit of the minor children of the parties and, subject
to section 5b, for the benefit of the parties' children who are not minor children. If a parent is self-employed and maintains
health care coverage, the court will require the parent to obtain or maintain dependent coverage for the benefit of the
minor children of the parties and, subject to section 5b, for the benefit of the parties' children who are not minor
children, if available at a reasonable cost.
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Michigan Child Custody
Michigan bases
its child custody court decisions on the 'best interests of the child' as set forth by Michigan divorce laws. You
have the opportunity to agree on a Parenting
Plan and a Visitation Schedule with
your spouse. Should that fail, the family court will impose its own version of a parenting and visitation or custody plan.
Considerations the court uses in its child
custody rulings
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The love, affection, and other emotional ties existing between the parents
involved and the child. |
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The capacity of the parties involved to give the child love, affection, and guidance
and to continue the education and raising of the child in his or her religion. |
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The capacity of the parties involved to provide the child with food,
clothing, medical care. 'How long the child has lived in a stable environment, and the desirability
of maintaining continuity. |
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The permanence of the existing or proposed custodial home or homes. |
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The moral fitness of the parties involved. |
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The mental and physical health of the parties involved. |
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The home, school, and community record of the child. |
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The reasonable preference of the child,
if the court considers the child to be of sufficient age to express a preference. |
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The willingness and ability of each of the parties to encourage
a close and continuing parent-child relationship between the child and the other parent
or the child and the parents. |
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Domestic violence, regardless of whether the violence was directed against or witnessed
by the child. |
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Any other factor considered by the court to be relevant to a particular child custody
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Michigan divorce laws define child custody
“Sole
legal custody”, one parent will have the right and responsibility to make major decisions regarding the child’s
welfare including matters of education, medical care and emotional, moral and religious development.
“Shared
legal custody”, continued mutual responsibility and involvement by both parents in major decisions regarding the child’s
welfare including matters of education, medical care and emotional, moral and religious development.
“Sole
physical custody”, a child will reside with and be under the supervision of one parent, subject to reasonable visitation
by the other parent, unless the court determines that such visitation would not be in the best interest of the child.
“Shared
physical custody”, a child will have periods of residing with and being under the supervision of each parent; provided,
however, that physical custody will be shared by the parents in such a way as to assure a child frequent and continued
contact with both parents.
Access to Records
Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a parent will not be denied access to records or information concerning
his or her child because the parent is not the child's custodial parent, unless the parent is prohibited from having access
to the records or information by a protective order. “Records or information” includes, but is not limited to,
medical, dental, and school records, day care provider's records, and notification of meetings regarding the child's education.
Co-parenting equally, where the child spends 1/2 the month with each parent (or alternates weeks) is becoming more common,
but carries with it its own set of challenges. If you are considering this, it pays to consult with a child psychologist
or another professional in this area. Children's preferences as to where they want to live are considered by the court (in
many cases) once they reach their teenage years.
Are you just starting out with divorce, and need a blueprint, or guidance, without it costing an arm and a leg? You will
be well served by developing your own Parenting
Plan, Visitation Schedule and Child
Custody Schedule.
For help in putting together your own Parenting Plan, Visitation Schedule and Child Custody Schedule, refer to these comprehensive
pages:
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Child Visitation
Co Parenting
Michigan has officially adopted the term parenting time and retired 'visitation'.
The parents have the opportunity to fashion a Child
Custody or Parenting Time Arrangement,
and submit the Parenting Plan to the court.
If the plan complies with state law, the Court will generally enter the agreed upon a final dissolution order. In
the event that you can find common ground with your spouse, be careful to leave nothing to interpretation. Be as
specific as you can including the right language in your agreement. For guidance, see the four pages listed
above in custody section.
In order to fully agree with any parenting plan, custody
agreement or child visitation plan, you'll need to be involved in creating the plans. You can depend on a lawyer to put
your wishes in the document, or you can actually do it yourself with Parenting
Plan software. What are the rights and responsibilities
of each parent? Who
has legal custody? Which holiday does the child spend with you? What time and where may the other parent pick the child up?
What time should the child be returned home? What is the procedure to follow if either of you are running late and won't
be there on time? How much notice should you be given if they are planning a vacation? How far away may the other spouse
move? What about future partners of your's or your ex's?
Should those partners stay overnight when the children are there? Do they need to be married? Remember, should there
be no agreement reached between you and your spouse, the court will determine custody and visitation in what it believes
is the best interests of the children.
Factors in Determining Child Visitation
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The existence of any special circumstances or needs of the child |
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Whether the child is a nursing child less than 6 months of age, or less than 1 year of age if the child
receives substantial nutrition through nursing. |
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The reasonable likelihood of abuse or neglect of the child during parenting time. |
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The reasonable likelihood of abuse of a parent resulting from the exercise of parenting time. |
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The inconvenience to, and burdensome impact or effect on, the child of traveling for purposes of parenting
time. |
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Whether a parent can reasonably be expected to exercise parenting time in accordance with the court order. |
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Whether a parent has frequently failed to exercise reasonable. parenting time. |
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The threatened or actual detention of the child with the intent to retain or conceal the child from the
other parent or from a third person who has legal custody. A custodial parent's temporary residence with the child in a domestic
violence shelter shall not be construed as evidence of the custodial parent's intent to retain or conceal the child from
the other parent. |
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Any other relevant factors |
In most cases the mother gets primary custody, the father joint custody with parenting time, or
joint legal custody. The Father typically is allowed alternating weekends, one non-overnight evening per week, alternating holidays,
and several weeks in the summer.
Be aware that you have to guide your side of the divorce. Don't rely that your attorney will think of everything. You
set the course; your lawyer navigates. Familiarize yourself with Michigan divorce statutes. If you anticipate any problems
with custody or visitation, we suggest you own Child Custody Strategies.
Are you already involved in the divorce process or perhaps divorced, and needing the right forms for specific parenting issues? The State of Michigan offers these:
To begin the divorce process you'll need the correct divorce forms. Download them easily and begin your divorce today.
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Spousal Support
Michigan Alimony
Maintenance
Alimony Guidelines
The court will consider the length of the marriage, the conduct of the parties during the marriage, the
age, health, station, occupation, amount and sources of income, vocational skills, employability, estate, liabilities and
needs of each of the parties and the opportunity of each for future acquisition of capital assets and income.
Parties may request alimony or maintenance (sometimes
referred to as spousal support) at any time after the initial filing, and are not required to produce evidence or explanation
in the initial petition for alimony. The defendant may either admit the grounds for separate alimony or maintenance or deny
them without further explanation. An admission by the defendant of the grounds for separate alimony or maintenance can be
considered by the court but is not binding on the court's determination. The defendant may also file a counterclaim for divorce.
If a counterclaim for divorce is entered, it need not be accompanied with proof, and
is not binding on the court.
If evidence is presented in open court that there has been a breakdown in the
marriage relationship to the extent that the objects of matrimony have been destroyed and there
remains no reasonable likelihood that the marriage can be preserved, the court shall enter:
A judgment
of separate maintenance if a counterclaim for divorce has not been filed.
A judgment dissolving
the bonds of matrimony if a counterclaim for divorce has been filed.
Alimony granted to a party by the court can be temporary, for a specific period, or permanent. Remarriage
or co-habitation can cause the alimony to be voided.
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Grounds For Divorce
Grounds for divorce can be filed based on the allegation that there
has been a breakdown of the marriage and the relationship has been destroyed and no reasonable likelihood that the marriage
can be preserved. Irreconcilable differences is the common phrase used in such a pleading. The defendant may
either admit the grounds for divorce or deny them without further explanation. Should the defendant admit to the grounds,
the court is not bound to make that determination until the court is satisfied that the admission is true and correct.
The court shall enter a judgment dissolving the marriage if evidence is present to affirms the filing
charges. Make certain there is no cohabitation after the filing for divorce. You will be asked to swear under oath,
and if you admit to it (cohabitation), the judge can throw out your case.
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Marriage Annulment
Marital Annulment
Michigan does provide for certain grounds for a marriage annulment (also
called a marital annulment or a divorce annulment) such as a party having a current spouse, one of the parties not being
of sufficient age, being mentally incompetent, having venereal disease, or being sterile
or impotent. The process is similar to a divorce, except that one must prove in some detail why there are grounds for annulment.
Annulments are issued for marriages that never should have been. If there has been concealment,
or the marriage was the result of a joke or dare, it can be annulled.
If you claim you were forced or defrauded into marriage, make sure there is no cohabitation after you file. That will
terminate your action.
If you claim physical incapacity as a ground, you must bring an action within two years of your marriage.
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Mediation
Marriage Counseling
Michigan courts may at any time after the filing of a divorce petition, based on grounds or irretrievable
breakdown of the marriage, order the parties to participate in family mediation or counseling.
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Legal Separation
Marital
Separation
In the State of Michigan there isn't a process that is specifically called a legal
separation where
you file a paper and you are immediately legally separated. There is a Michigan Separate Maintenance action however, which
is what most people think of when they mean a legal separation in MI. The process is the same
as for a divorce, and all issues except marital status get settled. Those that complete the separate maintenance action typically
do so for religious or health care insurance coverage reasons.
If a marriage separation (sometimes referred to as a marital separation or separate maintenance
action) has been decreed, the court may make such further orders for the support and maintenance of either spouse and for
the support, maintenance, and education of minor children, by either spouse, or out of the property of either spouse, as
the court deemed appropriate.
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Waiting
Period
In cases where a filing of divorce is presented, 60 days must have passed
before any testimony may be taken, or any final judgment rendered. An exception to that 60 days
would occur in cases of desertion. In petitions where minor children
are involved, 180 days from the date of filing must elapse before any testimony may be taken. Hardship cases involving children
can have the 60 day waiting period waived by a motion to the court. When the defendant lives outside of MI at the time
of the filing, or did not live in MI when the alleged cause for the divorce occurred, the spouse
filing the action must provide proof that the couple lived in Michigan for some period of time, or that the petitioner resided
in Michigan for one year prior to the filing.
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Grandparents Rights
Grand parenting may petition the court for visitation by filing
a motion before the court. Most agree that requesting visitation during the
divorce of the children's parents is cheaper and less involved than if one waits until the divorce is finalized.
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Divorce
Settlement
Distribution of Assets
In the course of a separation or divorce, the parties have an opportunity to reach a divorce
settlement with respect to marital assets and debts. If there is no agreement between the parties, the courts will impose a settlement.
Michigan has interesting language in its provision for dividing marital assets, and seems to go beyond
the standard "fair and equitable" verbiage found in other states. The statement
seems to encourage courts to strengthen the position of stay-at-home parents who jointly decided with the spouse that their
stay-at-home status was an equal contribution to all assets accumulated. In a proceeding of divorce, a Michigan circuit court
may 'award to a party all or a portion of the property, either real or personal, owned by his or her spouse, as appears to
the court to be equitable under all the circumstances of the case, if it appears from the evidence
in the case that the party contributed to the acquisition, improvement, or accumulation of the property. The decree, upon
becoming final, shall have the same force and effect as a quitclaim deed of the real estate, if any, or a bill of sale of
the personal property, if any, given by the party's spouse to the party.'
Divorcing couples often find themselves at odds over retirement accounts funded by one or both parties,
and disagreements arise when determining what division, if any, is appropriate. Courts examine contributions, the timing
of them and any appreciation of retirement accounts (such as a 401k, pension plan or Individual Retirement Accounts), and
decide what assets must be given to one spouse from another, using a court order called a QDRO. This review is done today
largely by computer software, and submitted to the judge. Your divorce attorney will often use an outside, third-party expert
to compile the data (professional fees), and then attach legal fees in the course of prosecuting or defending your case.
Are you getting an idea how much this can cost?
QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order) - You have choices today that didn't exist
that many years ago. You can use the same software program(s) the lawyers and retirement experts use to divide retirement assets, and save a good deal
of money. If this sounds like it is something that might benefit you, get your spouse to agree to collaborate and complete
the exercise yourself. See The QDRO Desk.
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Read Michigan divorce statutes as they are written in state
code
Residency Requirements
The divorce laws in Michigan dictate that either the person filing the petition for divorce, or
the respondent must have resided in Michigan for 180 days immediately preceding that filing
of the complaint. 19 days must have elapsed for one or the other in a particular county to file an action in that
county. Certain conditions allow petitioners to have the 10 day county residency waived.
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