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Family Laws (select Title 30) |
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| Alabama Child Care Enforcement |
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| Alabama Schedule of Basic Child
Support Obligations |
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| Alabama State
Bar Association |
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| Alabama Coalition
Against Domestic Violence (safety) |
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| Alabama Family
Law Self-Help Center |
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| Alabama Free divorce and support
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| Alabama Locating the Non-Custodial
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| Alabama Child Support Calculator |
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Child Support
The
child support calculation is one of the few aspects of the divorce process that doesn't leave much wiggle room. The Feds and your Alabama state legislators and their divorce statutes have made its computation little more than a mathematical formula. Think cookie-cutter. Boiler-plate. One size fits all. The child
support amount the non-custodial pays is based on the "income shares" model. What's that mean specifically? Alabama's legislative statutes have determined the guidelines to be based on the obvious. Here's the criteria:
- The combined incomes of both parents
- Each parent’s individual income as a percentage of the combined gross income
- The number of children under age 19
- Any pre-existing child support or alimony obligation
- Any work-related child care obligations, subject to
certain limitations
- Health Insurance premiums and which parent’s
obligation they are
Divorce laws have child support paid
one of two ways. More often it is an Income Withholding Order (IWO) whereby
the child support gets deducted from the payer’s paycheck, sent directly
to the court by the employer, and then distributed to the payee. This tends
to reduce or eliminate the hassles. It's a win-win for everyone.
The second method of passing Alabama child support from one to the other is through conventional means e.g. personal checks, money orders, etc. Cash is trash with this method (you have to maintain receipts, and isn't life difficult enough?).
Count on a change of heart (after all, isn't this why you're here?). If one wants to change the terms of child support, its off to court you go. Petition the Court. Ask that child support be reduced or increased. Expect more hand-wringing, and likely more legal cost. Do what you can with your attorney to set parameters before the divorce is final. Remember this: the more agreement you have in the final order, the less disagreement later. Have it written into your agreement that the paying and receiving of child support is independent of 'visitation' (don't you hate that word?) rights. Determine in the agreement if an adjustment to child support amounts is necessary when the non-custodial parent has more time with the children than the scheduled time allows (the kids' vacations, your vacation, summer recess, etc). What exactly does child support cover? What doesn't it cover? What about health insurance? What does each parent agree to do if its an HMO or PPO? Have other expenses associated with child support e.g. dental costs been agreed upon? When the medical insurance requires the designation of a family doctor, how will that be agreed upon? Get in writing the terms of who pays and how much they pay for transportation costs. What if someone moves? Who pays what?
Understand that a change to child support amounts can and does occur if the re-calculation is 10% or more different (a formal request to the court must be made).
What if he or she begins a new family? How are the original children protected? The answer is that the state considers the original family and the parents' financial responsibility to them first while balancing the needs of all. If the incomes of the parents falls outside the $6,600 to $120,000 per year range, courts have flexibility to deviate outside the guidelines. The guidelines per child are, in general (from gross income):
| 1= 20% |
2= 25% |
3= 30% |
| 4= 35% |
5= 40% |
6= 45% |
Did you know The State of Alabama collects and distributes child support payments using a system called the Alabama Location Enforcement Collection System (ALECS)? Payments are sent to the Alabama Child Support Payment Center and entered into a computer system, and then distributed to the payee.
| Divorce Myth: Following divorce, the children involved are better off in step families than in single-parent families. Reality: The evidence suggests that step families are no improvement over single-parent families, even though typically income levels are higher and there is a father figure in the home. Step families tend to have their own set of problems, including interpersonal conflicts with new parent figures and a very high risk of family breakup. |
Residency
Requirements
Residency is important for jurisdiction (which court hears the case and what laws get applied). If both are residents of Alabama, either can file with the circuit court in the county where they reside. If one is a resident of another state (meets that state's residency requirements), that person may file in that out-of-state jurisdiction.
When the defendant is a non-resident, the other party must be a bona fide resident of Alabama for 6 months.
You may file the action in the circuit court of the county in which the defendant resides, or in the circuit court of the county in which the parties resided when the separation occurred, or if the defendant is a nonresident, then in the circuit court of the county in which the other party to the marriage resides.
If one party does not meet Alabama residency guidelines, and the other does, they can consider having the resident file if timing is a concern.
Filing an action first isn't necessarily an advantage if both reside in the same locale. If fault is claimed, the petitioner has the burden of proof to provide evidence to convince the court a particular behavior occurred.
Child
Custody
Perhaps the most pressing unanswered question at the outset is: who will get custody? While the court will consider joint child custody in every case, it will make its final determination as to the type of custody to be awarded based upon the “best interests of the child”. Here is some of what they may consider:
- The past and present ability of the parents to cooperate
with each other and make decisions jointly.
- The degree of agreement or lack thereof on joint custody
issues.
- The ability of each parent to encourage a loving and
nurturing relationship with the other parent.
- Any history of or potential for child abuse, spousal
abuse or kidnapping.
- The geographic distance between the parents
Within the Alabama Code there exists a state
policy on joint custody. It states: "Joint Custody. - It is the policy
of this state to assure that minor children have frequent and continuing
contact with parents who have shown the ability to act in the best interest
of their children and to encourage parents to share in the rights and responsibilities of rearing their children after the parents have separated or dissolved their marriage. Joint custody does not necessarily mean equal physical
custody."
Courts generally view joint custody as being in the best interest of the child, and will award joint custody unless it makes a specific finding as to why it should not.
The court may grant the custody and education
of the children of the marriage to either parent, taking into account the moral character and prudence of the parents and the age and sex of the children. During the process and before the final decree, the court may make orders with respect to the custody of the children as their safety and well-being may require. But in cases of abandonment of the husband by the wife, the father shall have the custody of the children after they are 7 years of age, if he is a suitable person to have such charge. [Editor's note: Yes, we see this rule as archaic. If the mother has abandoned them, and the father can't/won't have custody until age 7, who gets harmed here?]
| Divorce Myth: Following
divorce, the woman’s standard of living plummets by seventy three percent while that of the man’s
improves by forty two percent. Reality: This dramatic inequity, one of the most widely publicized statistics from the social sciences, was later found to be based on a faulty calculation. A reanalysis of the data determined that the woman’s loss was twenty seven percent while the man’s gain was ten percent. Irrespective of the magnitude of the differences, the gender gap is real and seems not to have narrowed much in recent decades. |
Visitation
Child custody and visitation/parenting time
can come in many forms. Joint custody and sole custody; legal custody and
physical custody; in Alabama, the parties will decide if they can create
a Parenting Plan, and if they cannot agree, have the court decide. The
court takes into consideration what each parent wants, what the child wants
(if the child is old enough and/or mature enough), which parent has been
the primary caretaker and the parenting abilities of each parent. Any reported
abuse is also taken into consideration. Couples should focus on the visitation/shared
parenting schedules. Include drop-off and pick-up times and locations.
Make certain both parents have access to school records, medical records,
teachers and activities. Define when vacations begin and end. Share birthdays.
Plan summer visitation. Above all, be considerate. If you and your spouse
cannot agree, the court will award the non-custodian, in most cases, every
other weekend, one or two nights per week (not overnight), alternating
holidays, Mother's and Father's Days, and a month in the summer.
Alimony/Maintenance/Spousal
Support
Divorces in Alabama contain alimony where appropriate, and
usually see it occur in marriages of twelve years or more, or when the
economic potential and/or income for either party is about equal. Alimony
is becoming more a means of rehabilitating a working-aged dependent spouse
so that he or she can re-enter the work force and become independent. Like
annulment, alimony decisions are based on case law rather than by divorce
statutes. It is subjective; determined by the facts of an individual case,
and the judges interpretations. Marital misconduct can play a part of any
judicial decision. Pre-marital or inherited assets are excluded from any
equation for alimony. The wife may resume a maiden name or any previous
surname-the husband can prevent the wife from continuing with his name.
Grounds
for Divorce 
The grounds upon which Alabama law permits a judgment of divorce to be granted include;
1. When either party was physically and incurably incapable of consummating the marriage
2. For adultery
3. For voluntary abandonment by either spouse for one year prior to the filing of the complaint
4. When either spouse is imprisoned for a felony conviction for a period of two years and the actual sentence is seven years or more
5. The commission of crimes against nature, before or after the marriage
6. Drug or alcohol addiction
7. Complete incompatibility-can no longer live together
8. Insanity-committed to an institution for 5 years and incurably insane
9. Irretrievable breakdown of the marriage-no hope of reconciliation
10. Wife was pregnant at the time of marriage without the husband's knowledge
11. In favor of either party when the other has committed actual violence or placed the party in reasonable apprehension of such violence
13. In favor of the wife when she has lived separate and apart from the husband
without his support for two years prior to the filing of divorce, and she is
a resident of Alabama.
Marital Annulment or
Marriage Annulment
There is no statute governing annulment in
Alabama. The process is based on case law (much like alimony is in many
states). Conditions that would permit an annulment would be similar to
other states: void marriages and voidable marriages; those that had elements
of fraud or concealment, or where coercion and the lack of
an ability to be aware of what one was doing.
Mediation
or Counseling 
Alabama has a divorce statute called "Mandatory Mediation Prior to Trial." Three conditions when mediation is mandatory:
- At any time where all parties agree
- At either party's request. The party asking for mediation
pays the costs of mediation, except attorney fees, unless otherwise agreed
- If no party requests mediation, the trial court may,
on its own motion, order mediation. The trial court may allocate the costs of
mediation, except attorney fees, among the parties
In the case of domestic violence issues, the
court will not order mediation and will allow another remedy (such as a
protective order) to be put in place before considering mediation.
| Divorce Myth: Being very unhappy at certain points in a marriage is a good sign that the marriage will eventually end in divorce. Reality: All marriages have their ups and downs. Recent research using a large national sample found that eighty six percent of people who were unhappily married in the late 1980s, and stayed with the marriage, indicated when interviewed five years later that they were happier. Indeed, three fifths of the formerly unhappily married couples rated their marriages as either “very happy” or “quite happy". |
Marital
Separation or Legal Separation 
Alabama recognizes legal separation
and will grant a legal separation to a party in the divorce if the
court has proper jurisdiction (whoever filed did so in the correct
locale), that marriage is irretrievably broken or there exists a
complete and total incompatibility, and the court is able to consider
and approve of a parenting plan submitted by the parties that will
provide for child support and custody of any children of the union.
As in all decrees of separation, it does not alter the married status
of the parties.
The
court will grant a legal separation if all of the following requirements
are satisfied:
1.) Jurisdictional requirements for the dissolution of a marriage have
been met
2.) The marriage is irretrievably broken or there exists a complete incompatibility
or one or both of the parties desires to live apart
3.) To the extent that it has jurisdiction to do so, the court has considered,
approved, or provided for child custody, and has entered an order for child
support. Upon written consent by both parties, after entry of a decree
of legal separation, all of the following provisions will come into play:
1. All earnings or accumulations realized by each spouse after the entry
of the decree of legal separation are the separate property of that party;
2. A spouse may convey his or her real estate without the
signature or consent of the other; 3. Each spouse may waive all
rights to inheritance from the other spouse. Alimony may be awarded at
any time prior to the final decree, and can be in the form of cash or real
property or any other asset the courts deems appropriate. There is no set
formula for determining alimony by the court. Retirement assets or benefits
may be divided provided the following conditions are met: a. The
parties have been married for a period of 10 years during which the retirement
was being accumulated, b. The court shall not include in the estate the
value of any retirement benefits acquired prior to the marriage including
any interest or appreciation of the benefits, and c. The total amount
of the retirement benefits payable to the non-covered spouse shall not
exceed 50 percent of the retirement benefits that may be considered by
the court.
Waiting Period 
Waiting
period: Alabama divorce law requires that thirty (30) days elapse from
the filing of the summons and complaint before a final judgment of divorce
be entered. Alabama further requires that neither party to the divorce
may remarry, except to each other, until sixty days after the judgment
of divorce is entered. If an appeal of the judgment of divorce is taken,
the parties may not remarry, except to each other, during the pendancy
of the appeal.
Grandparents Rights 
At the discretion of the court, grandparents
may be awarded visitation privileges of minor grandchildren. You should consider having details of grandparents visitation in place before the final decree gets gaveled, otherwise, it may be back to court you go (legal fees).
Divorce
Settlement 
Alabama
is known as an "equitable distribution" state. If the parties
cannot reach a divorce settlement on dividing marital assets, the court
will do so. Alabama divorce laws determine that the division of property
and debts between the divorcing parties should be fair and equitable, but
not necessarily equal. The parties have the opportunity to come to a divorce
settlement and not leave that settlement up to the court. There is no fixed
standard to divide property, each case will be decided on its facts, and
the trial court's discretion will not be disturbed on appeal without a
showing of clear abuse. [Editor's note: make sure you and your lawyer make
certain you leave no stone unturned, as once the ink dries on this issue,
it's pretty well set in stone]. Did you come into this marriage owning
a house? Concerned about the equity in that house that you brought into
the marriage? Here's how it works generally. What you brought into the
marriage is usually all yours. However, any appreciation of the house or
the property value is normally treated as a "marital
asset",
meaning that you will likely forfeit a third to a half of that appreciation
to your spouse in the divorce.
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