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Visitation
Co Parenting
Visitation in New Jersey, or more recently known as 'co-parenting', is determined by divorce
laws for child custody. Parents have the opportunity to negotiate on, and agree to, an overall parenting plan, which will
include a custody or visitation schedule. If the parents are unable to agree on an
overall Parenting
Plan, the Family Court will intervene with its own plan. A visitation
schedule will typically provide co-parenting time to the non-custodian that will include every
other weekend and one or two nights during the week, and alternating holidays. For those that fail to exercise their visitation
privileges, the courts, if petitioned, can increase
child support. Whether its during the negotiating process, or after the divorce is final, make sure everything is in writing.
Details such as who picks up and drops off the kids should be in writing. Who pays which expenses? Right of first refusal
if the custodial needs to find a care-giver/sitter for occasions such as sickness, work demands etc. So that you don't miss
any details, check the links below.
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Spousal Support
New Jersey Alimony
Maintenance
New Jersey family law courts have the ability to order alimony (also known as spousal
support or maintenance)
by one party for the benefit of the other in any manner it sees fit. Consideration of who will provide for the majority of
care, custody, education and maintenance of the children will factor into any alimony decision. Reasonable and just are the
operative words here. Note: when a couple has a track record of one parent staying home to care for the children while the
other works outside the home, the courts will, in most cases, consider the stay-at-home parent's contribution to the marriage
to be equal to that of the "bread-winner".
The court will consider any or all of the following factors:
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The actual need and ability of the parties to pay; |
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The duration of the marriage; |
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The age, physical and emotional health of the parties; |
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The standard of living established in the marriage and the likelihood that each party can
maintain a reasonably comparable standard of living; |
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The earning capacities, educational levels, vocational skills, and employability of the
parties; |
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The length of absence from the job market of the party seeking maintenance; |
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The parental responsibilities for the children; |
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The time and expense necessary to acquire sufficient education or training to enable the
party seeking maintenance to find appropriate employment, the availability of the training and employment, and the opportunity
for future acquisitions of capital assets and income; |
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The history of the financial or non-financial contributions to the marriage by each party
including contributions to the care and education of the children and interruption of personal careers or educational opportunities; |
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The equitable distribution of property ordered and any pay outs on equitable distribution,
directly or indirectly, out of current income, to the extent this consideration is reasonable, just and fair; |
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The income available to either party through investment of any assets held by that party; |
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The tax treatment and consequences to both parties of any alimony award, including the designation
of all or a portion of the payment as a non-taxable payment; and |
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Any other factors which the court may deem relevant. |
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Mediation
Marriage Counseling
Divorce laws in New Jersey provide for a mandatory education program known as the "Parents'
Education Program." It is designed to assist and advise divorced parents on issues concerning divorce, separation and
custody. It is a form of marriage counseling. The course can be the gateway for mediation.
The purpose of the program is to promote cooperation between the parties and to assist parents in resolving
issues which may arise during the divorce or separation process, including, but not limited to:
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Understanding the legal process and cost of divorce or separation, including
arbitration and mediation; |
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Understanding the financial responsibilities for the children; |
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Understanding the interaction between parent and child, the family relationship and any
other areas of adjustment and concern during the process of divorce or separation; |
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Understanding how children react to divorce or separation, how to spot problems, what to
tell them about divorce or separation, how to keep communication open and how to answer questions and concerns the children
may have about the process; |
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Understanding how parents can help their children during the divorce or separation, specific
strategies, ideas, tools, and resources for assistance; |
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Understanding how parents can help children after the divorce or separation and how to
deal with new family structures and different sets of rules; and |
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Understanding that cooperation may sometimes be inappropriate in cases of domestic violence. |
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Legal Separation
Marriage
Separation
As a resident of New Jersey, you will need to put together a separation agreement in
advance of a marriage annulment, and have it be details that your spouse is willing to fully agree to. In many cases, people
retain an attorney to have a
separation agreement completed. Others will use the links made available here (see custody and
visitation sections here) to get the job done and save money. You will need to have all details of caring for any children
of the marriage, how you'll pay the expenses of two homes, and what you plan to do with the marital assets. Legal
separation (or marital separation)
is most often pursued when one of the parties wants to stay married for religious reasons, wants the advantage of deductibility
of spousal support payments for income tax reasons, wants to maintain various insurance coverage's, or do not want to wait
the state statutory waiting period for termination of marital status.
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Waiting Period
Divorce laws in New Jersey provide that there is no waiting period, other than
the 18 month uninterrupted separate-living requirement needed to obtain a no-fault divorce.
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Grandparents Rights
A grandparent or any sibling of a child residing in this State may make application for an order
for visitation. Grandparents rights are conferred by Federal law and reaffirmed by NJ divorce laws. It is the burden of the
applicant to prove that the granting of visitation is in the best interests of the child. The court will consider the following
factors in making that decision:
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The relationship between the child and the applicant; |
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The relationship between each of the child's parents or the person with whom the child
is residing and the applicant; |
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The time which has elapsed since the child last had contact with the applicant; |
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The effect that such visitation will have on the relationship between the child and
the child's parents or the person with whom the child is residing; |
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If the parents are divorced or separated, the time sharing arrangement which exists
between the parents with regard to the child; |
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The good faith of the applicant in filing the application; |
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Any history of physical, emotional or sexual abuse or neglect by the applicant; and |
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Any other factor relevant to the best interests of the child |
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Divorce
Settlement
Distribution of Assets
New Jersey is an equitable distribution state as it relates to a divorce settlement.
Equitable
distribution is defined as dividing the marital assets in an equitable (or fair) manner, but not necessarily an equal one.
If you and your spouse are unable to reach a divorce settlement, the court will step in. In most every case, you and your
spouse will be much better off if you can agree on a divorce settlement rather than let the court decide.
Factors the court may consider are:
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The duration of the marriage; |
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The age and physical and emotional health of the parties; |
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The income or property brought to the marriage by each party; |
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The standard of living established during the marriage; |
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Any written agreement made by the parties before or during the marriage concerning
an arrangement of property distribution; |
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The economic circumstances of each party at the time the division of property becomes
effective; |
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The income and earning capacity of each party, including educational background, training,
employment skills, work experience, length of absence from the job market, custodial responsibilities for children, and the
time and expense necessary to acquire sufficient education or training to enable the party to become self-supporting at a
standard of living reasonably comparable to that enjoyed during the marriage; |
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The contribution by each party to the education, training or earning power of the
other; |
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The contribution of each party to the acquisition, dissipation, preservation, depreciation
or appreciation in the amount or value of the marital property, as well as the contribution of a party as a homemaker; |
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The tax consequences of the proposed distribution to each party; |
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The present value of the property; |
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The need of a parent who has physical custody of a child to own or occupy the marital
residence and to use or own the household effects; |
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The debts and liabilities of the parties; |
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The need for creation, now or in the future, of a trust fund to secure reasonably
foreseeable medical or educational costs for a spouse or children; |
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The extent to which a party deferred achieving their career goals; and |
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Did you come into this marriage owning a house? Concerned about the equity in
that house that you brought into the marriage? Worried about having a pre-marital asset be subject
to a divorce settlement? Here's how it works generally. What you brought into the marriage is usually
all yours. However, any appreciation of the house or the property value is normally treated as a "marital asset",
meaning that you will likely forfeit a third to a half of that appreciation to your spouse in the divorce.
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Residency Requirements
Sixty days isn't much to ask, is it? The petitioner or respondent must have been an actual resident
of the state for 60 days immediately preceding the filing of the petition. New Jersey divorce laws require residency before
a petition for divorce can proceed. Any person who has been a resident of or stationed at a United States post or military
reservation within the state for 60 days immediately preceding the filing of the petition may file an action for divorce
in any county adjacent to the post or reservation. A spouse may have a residence in this state separate and apart from the
residence of the other spouse.
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