Washington. Cool weather,
great fruit, warm people and a unique geographical location. Oh, and divorce, like everywhere else. Feeling shell-shocked?
Don't despair. We promise that it gets better. Really. Take a deep breath. If nothing else, we'll give you some answers and
ease your anxiety. If you remember anything from this page, remember that if you are a parent you will have to have a Parenting
Plan and Child
Custody Schedule acceptable to the court to get divorced. You can personalize yours, or the court will impose a generic one. Choose wisely. It will have a major impact on your lives.
Washington State Child Support
Washington State child support laws allow the court to order
one or both parents to pay child support in accordance with state guidelines. Some observers point out that Washington State,
like many states, only takes into account basic information and doesn't consider what actual child-related expenses truly
are. Washington State reviews how much you earn, how much your soon-to-be-ex earns, how many children from the marriage, and what
percentage of time the children are under the care of each parent. That's it. The good news
for the non-custodial parent? Washington State child support and family laws compute child support based on NET income rather
than gross income.
Washington laws allow the court to order one or both parents to make child
support payments in accordance with state guidelines. Some observers point out that Washington State, like many states, only
takes into account basic information and doesn't consider what are actual child-related expenses truly are. Washington reviews
how much you earn, how much your soon-to-be-ex earns, how many children from the marriage, and what percentage of time the
children are under the care of each parent. That's it.
State law requires that all income and resources be disclosed in the determination of the
child support payment. Virtually every type of income and
resource makes its way into the calculation. From this gross income, certain sources of income get excluded from monthly
gross income to form a gross net income, from which the child support payment is derived. Most notably, Federal and State
income taxes get deducted from gross income to arrive at the net amount.
For parents that are intentionally unemployed or underemployed, the family court will impute,
or assign, the amount of income a parent should be earning, and compute child support payments with that estimate. Should one
parent request a modification of child support payments at any time after the final decree, they must show cause why the
modification is warranted, and can include the income of a new partner only if the request includes another significant change
in that parents circumstances.
If you are looking for a child support calculator, you can get an approximate amount
of child support payment due accessing the tables the
state makes available, or you can visit AllLaw.com. WA State Child support will be paid in a manner specified by the court,
which can include mailing payments, paying electronically on-line or through income withholding. The parent receiving the
support can elect to receive it by check, or electronically via a direct deposit to a bank account, or to a debit card.
Washington State child support ends at age 18 or at graduation from high school if before
19.
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Washington State Child Custody
Washington
State statutes instruct the court to award joint or sole child custody of minor children of the marriage based upon the best
interests of the children. Courts require that each parent submit a proposed Parenting
Plan or child visitation schedule.
Depending on circumstances, you may be required to file such a plan within certain periods of time. See your lawyer to discuss
when you are required to file your parenting plan. The objectives of the permanent parenting plan are to:
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Maintain the child's emotional stability, |
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Provide for the child's changing needs as the child grows and
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Set forth the authority and responsibilities of each parent with respect to the child, |
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Minimize the child's exposure to harmful parental conflict, |
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Encourage the parents to meet their responsibilities to their minor children through
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If the non-custodial parent fails to exercise residential time for an extended period of time (a year or more), the court, if
petitioned, can make adjustments to the parenting plan in keeping with the best interests of the minor child. Simply put,
if one parent routinely blows off his or her parenting time with a child, the custodial parent can request and receive a
less generous visitation schedule for the non-custodial parent.
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Visitation
Co Parenting
Washington divorce laws have discarded the terms visitation and custody, and
replaced them with a Parenting Plan. The
court will give the parents an opportunity to submit a parenting plan, or a child custody schedule, and if they are unable
to agree, the court will fashion one using the principle of "best interests of the child".
In that Plan the court will set out when the child will be with each parent, which parent will make what decisions regarding
the child, how disputes between the parents will be resolved and any limits on parenting functions. The court can look at
any or all of the following:
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Any agreements the parents have made, |
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Each parent's ability to perform parenting functions, |
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The relative strength, nature and stability of the child's relationship with each
parent, including whether a parent has taken greater responsibility for performing parenting functions relating to the daily
needs of the child, |
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The emotional needs and developmental level of the child, |
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The child's relationship with siblings and other significant adults, |
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The child's involvement with his or her school or other activities, |
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The wishes of the parents, |
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The wishes of a child who is sufficiently mature to express reasoned and independent
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Be aware that you have to guide your side of the divorce. Don't rely that your attorney will think of everything. You
set the course; your lawyer navigates. If you anticipate any problems with custody or visitation, we suggest you own Child
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Spousal Support
Washington State Alimony
Maintenance
A hot topic: Washington divorce statutes and the much contested
issue of alimony (or maintenance). Courts will examine the circumstances around the marriage
in order to accurately and fairly assess the needs of each party. Judges have latitude in the amount of alimony as well as
the duration. Sometimes called spousal support, alimony can be granted to either spouse. Factors that
can influence the courts decision can include:
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The financial resources of the party
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The time needed to acquire education or training so that a party can
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How long the marriage lasted, |
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How well the spouse being asked to pay the maintenance will be able
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The age and condition of the spouse seeking maintenance and |
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The standard of living while the marriage was intact. |
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Grounds For Divorce
Washington State is a 'no-fault divorce' state. Following the ninety-day requirement to proceed
(since the date the petition was filed), the court will continue the action, dismiss it or grant a dissolution of marriage.
no fault means that there is no burden on either part to prove
marital misconduct (fault) has taken place. The court makes the assumption that the differences between the parties are irreconcilable
and will proceed. Therefore grounds for divorce in Washington are simply irreconcilable differences.
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Marriage Counseling
Mediation
During the process the court may recognize that mediation may be required
to resolve differences between the parties. The stated objective is to reduce acrimony which may exist between the parties
and to develop
an agreement assuring the child's close and continuing contact with both
parents after the marriage is dissolved. Any agreement reached by the parties as a result of mediation gets reported to the
court and to counsel for the parties by the mediator on the day set for mediation or any time thereafter designated by the
court.
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Legal Separation
Marital
Separation
Legal separation is usually pursued when the parties want to stay
married for religious reasons, want the advantage of deductibility of spousal support payments for income tax reasons, want
to maintain various insurance coverage's, wish to create a period of time to allow clearer thought, or are do not want to
wait the state statutory waiting period for termination of marital status. It is not a prerequisite to divorce, although
it does happen that way for many. In this state a legal separation (sometimes referred to as a marriage separation) is a
process, with divorce papers filed with the court. Parties are expected to submit a separation agreement providing for the
maintenance of either of them, the
disposition of any property owned by both or either of them, the parenting plan and support for their children and for the
release of each other from all obligation except that expressed in the contract. Parties must publish a notice in a local
newspaper providing notice to all.
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Waiting Period
At least 90 days must have elapsed from the time a court is petitioned that the marriage
is irretrievably broken before a court can enter a decree of dissolution, dismiss the petition, or in some cases, extend
the petition.
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Grandparents Rights
Federal law and Washington divorce laws allow grandparents to petition the court for
visitation rights of grandchildren. Courts will rule on these petitions based on the best interests
of the children. Courts want to find that there has been a significant relationship between grandparents
and grandchildren before they will grant such a request.
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Divorce
Settlement
Distribution of Assets
You and your spouse will arrive at a divorce settlement of your marital assets,
or the court will determine a settlement for you. WA is one of nine states known as Community Property states. Washington
courts define community property as the totality of property acquired during the marriage. Perhaps surprisingly, WA
state courts do not take into account such issues as fault (marital misconduct such as adultery), financial
need or ability to earn income when dividing community property. Property that was brought into
the marriage, in most cases, is returned to that party and not made a part of the divisible assets. Other non-marital property
can be gifts or inheritances made to one spouse during the marriage, an asset purchased with separate funds acquired by the
spouse before the marriage, any assets excluded by a pre-nuptial agreement or an asset that is the result of increased value
and acquired before the marriage. As a general rule, co-mingled funds or assets become a part of the divisible pool of assets.
Did you come into this marriage owning a house? Concerned about the equity in that house that you brought
into the marriage? Here's how it works generally. What you brought into the marriage is usually all yours. However, any appreciation
of the house or the property value is normally treated as a "marital asset", meaning that you will likely forfeit
a third to a half of that appreciation to your spouse in the divorce. Consult Washington divorce statutes or your attorney.
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Residency Requirements
In order for a petition of divorce to proceed, at least one of the parents must have been
a resident of this state for at least ninety days prior to the commencement of the action. A member of the armed forces who
is stationed elsewhere but was residing in Washington for at least ninety days prior to relocation is considered to have
established residency. Courts can proceed once residency has been established, and can enter a decree of divorce, dismiss
the petition or continue it.
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