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Child Support
Washington
State divorce laws allow the court to order one
or both parents to pay child support in accordance
with state guidelines. Some observers point out
that Washington state, like many states, only
takes into account basic information and doesn't
consider what are actual child-related expenses
truly are. Washington reviews how much you earn,
how much your soon-to-be-ex earns, how many children
from the marriage, and what percentage of time
the children are under the care of each parent.
That's it. The good
news for the non-custodial parent? Washington
family law computes child support based on NET
income rather than gross income.
Washington
State divorce laws allow the court to order one
or both parents to pay child support in accordance
with state guidelines. Some observers point out
that Washington state, like many states, only
takes into account basic information and doesn't
consider what are actual child-related expenses
truly are.
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Washington
reviews how much you earn, how much your soon-to-be-ex
earns, how many children from the marriage, and
what percentage of time the children are under
the care of each parent. That's it. The good news
for the
non-custodial parent? Washington family law computes
child support based on NET income rather than
gross income.
Washington's
Department of Social and Health Services (DSHS)
assists parents in the payment and collection
of child support, provides for direct deposit
of funds, offers an on-line payment web site,
assists in ensuring medical insurance is provided
for children, and works with employers to identify
and collect court ordered child support. Should
you be in a position where you haven't retained
an attorney but need to begin the child support
process, you may click on the link above that
reads Washington Department of Social & Health
Services.
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Looking
to initiate or make child support payments on-line?
You may begin that process by going to the link
above or by writing them at:
The Division of
Child Support EFT Customer Service Unit PO Box
9010 Olympia, Washington 98507-9010
Tel: (800) 468-7422
8am-5pm Mon-Fri (360) 664-5103 8am-5pm Mon-Fri
Washington
divorce laws dictate that support payments received
by DSHS be forwarded to the receiving party within
48 hours. This makes the process streamlined and
provides for rapid receipt for the custodial parent.
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page that will help you determine your rights
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for a child support calculator to determine what
amounts will be required to be paid? On-line child
support worksheets can also be located at the
above link. You can review frequently asked questions
about Washington state child support by using
the following link.
Everything else you'll need to know can be found
(including forms) can be found via the links above.
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Child Custody
Washington
state statutes permit the court to award joint
or sole child custody of minor children of the
marriage based upon the best interests of the
children. Courts require that each parent submit
a proposed parenting plan. Depending on circumstances,
you
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be required to file such a plan within certain
periods of time. See your lawyer to discuss when
you are required to file your parenting plan.The
objectives of the permanent parenting plan are
to: 1.) Provide for the child's physical care;
2.) Maintain the child's emotional stability,
3.) Provide for the child's changing needs as
the child grows
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and
matures; 4.) Set forth the authority and responsibilities
of each parent with respect to the child, 5.)
Minimize the child's exposure to harmful parental
conflict, 6.) Encourage the parents to meet their
responsibilities to their minor children through
agreements in the permanent parenting plan, rather
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Visitation/Co-Parenting
Washington
state divorce laws have discarded the terms visitation
and custody, and replaced them with a "Parenting
Plan". The court will give the parents an
opportunity to submit a parenting plan, and if
they are unable to agree, the court will fashion
one using the principle of "best interests
of the child". In that Plan the court will
set out when the child will be with each parent,
which parent will make what decisions regarding
the child, how disputes between the parents will
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resolved
and any limits on parenting functions. The court
can look at any or all of the following: 1. Any
agreements the parents have made, 2.
Each parent's ability to perform parenting functions,
3. The relative strength, nature and stability
of the child's relationship with each parent,
including whether a parent has taken greater responsibility
for performing parenting functions relating to
the daily needs of the child, 4. The emotional
needs and developmental level of the child, 5.
The child's relationship with siblings and other
significant adults, 6. The child's
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involvement
with his or her school or other activities, 7.
The wishes of the parents, 8. The wishes of a
child who is sufficiently mature to express reasoned
and independent preferences.
Be aware that you have to guide your side of
the divorce. Don't rely that your attorney will
think of everything. You set the course; your
lawyer navigates. If you anticipate any problems
with custody or visitation, we suggest you own Child
Custody Strategies
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Alimony/
Maintenance/ Spousal Support
Washington
divorce statutes and the hotly contested issue
of alimony (or maintenance). Courts
will examine the circumstances around the marriage
in order to accurately and fairly assess the needs
of each party. Judges have latitude in the amount
of alimony as well as the duration. Sometimes
called spousal support, alimony can be granted
to either spouse. Factors that
can influence the courts decision can include:
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1.)
The financial resources of the party seeking maintenance
2.) The time needed to acquire education or training
so that a party can become self-sufficient, 3.)
How long the marriage lasted, 4.)
How well the spouse being asked to pay the maintenance
will be able to manage maintenance
payments and their personal expenses. 5.)
The age and condition of the spouse seeking maintenance and
6.) The standard of living while the marriage
was intact.
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may realize that we all need some help processing
all this angst.
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The
help can come in the form of friends, relatives
or professionals. If you're not inclined to approach
family or friends, and unwilling to pay for professional
counseling, the next best step would be educating
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Grounds
For Divorce
Washington is a “no-fault
divorce” state. Following the ninety-day
requirement to proceed (since the date the petition
was filed), the court will continue the action,
dismiss it or grant a dissolution of marriage.
no fault means that there is no burden on
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either
part to prove marital misconduct (fault) has taken
place. The court makes the assumption that the
differences between the parties are irreconcilable
and will proceed. Therefore grounds for divorce
in Washington are simply irreconcilable differences.
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Marriage
Annulment
Marital Annulment
Washington
state calls a marriage annulment (sometimes called
a marital annulment or simply an annulment) a “Declaration
Concerning Validity”. To quote directly
from Washington divorce laws, one can petition
for an annulment if: The marriage or domestic
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because
of age of one or both of the parties, lack of
required parental or court approval, a prior un
dissolved marriage of one or both of the parties,
a prior domestic partnership of one or both parties
that has not been terminated or
dissolved, reasons of consanguinity, or because
a party lacked capacity to consent to the marriage
or domestic partnership, either because of mental
incapacity or because of the influence of alcohol
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other
incapacitating substances, or because a party
was induced to enter into the marriage or domestic
partnership by force or duress, or by fraud involving
the essentials of marriage or domestic partnership,
and that the parties have not ratified their marriage
or domestic partnership by voluntarily cohabiting
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Marriage
Counseling/
Mediation
During the process the
court may recognize that mediation may be required
to resolve differences between the parties. The
stated objective is to reduce acrimony which may
exist between the parties and to
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develop
an agreement assuring the child's close and continuing
contact with both parents after the marriage is
dissolved. Any
agreement reached by the parties as a result of
mediation gets reported to the court and to counsel
for the parties by the mediator on the day set
for mediation or any time thereafter designated
by the court.
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Legal
Separation/
Marital Separation
Legal separation is usually
pursued when the parties want to stay married
for religious reasons, want the advantage of deductibility
of spousal support payments for income tax reasons,
want to maintain various insurance coverage's,
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want
to wait the state statutory waiting period for
termination of marital status. It is not a prerequisite
to divorce, although it does happen that way for
many. In this state a legal separation(sometimes
referred to as a marital separation) is a process,
with paperwork filed with the court. Parties are
expected to submit a separation agreement providing
for the
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maintenance
of either of them, the disposition of any property
owned by both or either of them, the parenting
plan and support for their children and for the
release of each other from all obligation except
that expressed in the contract. Parties must publish
a notice in a local newspaper providing notice
to all.
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Waiting
Period
At least 90 days must have
elapsed from the time a court is petitioned that
the marriage is irretrievably broken before a
court can enter a decree of dissolution, dismiss
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Grandparents Rights
Federal
law and Washington divorce laws allow grandparents
to petition the court for visitation rights of
grandchildren. Courts will rule on these petitions
based on the best interests of the children. Courts
want to find that
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has been a significant relationship between grandparents
and grandchildren before they will grant such
a request.
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Divorce
Settlement
You and
your spouse will arrive at a divorce settlement
of your marital assets, or the court will determine
a settlement for you. Washington state is one
of nine states known as Community Property states.
Washington courts define community property as
the totality of property acquired during the marriage.
Perhaps surprisingly, Washington state courts
do not take into account such issues as fault
(marital misconduct such as adultery), financial
need or ability to earn income when dividing community
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property.
Property that was brought into the marriage, in
most cases, is returned to that party and not
made a part of the divisible assets. Other non-marital
property can be gifts or inheritances made to
one spouse during the marriage, an asset purchased
with separate funds acquired by the spouse before
the marriage, any assets excluded by a pre-nuptial
agreement or an asset that
is the result of increased value and acquired
before the marriage. As a general rule, co-mingled
funds or assets become a part of the divisible
pool of assets.
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Did
you come into this marriage owning a house? Concerned
about the equity in that house that you brought
into the marriage? Here's how it works generally.
What you brought into the marriage is usually
all yours. However, any appreciation of the house
or the property value is normally treated as a "marital
asset", meaning that you will likely forfeit
a third to a half of that appreciation to your
spouse in the divorce. Consult Virginia divorce
statutes or your attorney.
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Residency
Requirements
In order for a
petition of divorce to proceed, at least one of
the parents must have been a resident of this
state for at least ninety days prior to the commencement
of the action. A member of the armed forces who
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stationed
elsewhere but was residing in Washington for at
least ninety days prior to relocation is considered
to have established residency. Courts can proceed
once residency has been established, and can enter
a decree of divorce, dismiss the petition or continue
it.
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